A dating profile for the ladies
But turning your dating profile into a laundry list of complaints isn’t going to get you what you want; at best it’s going to make you sound like a whiny baby, and at worst it’s going to make you sound like a huge racist. You sound like a bad Lifetime movie boyfriend, not a reasonably dateable person.It may be true that your interests are 69, anal, ass, bikini babes, masturbating, porn, vaginas and the beach.Plus, it starts the relationship off in a false way. End your profile with a sentence that asks a man to show you he is interested.Be your authentic self and convey that in your profile. For example, "If romance and passion appeal to you like they do to me, let me know." In other words, if he likes what you like, let you know by writing back.So select photos that look good, but could also in some universe be reasonably understood to be you.Relatedly: Select photos where you can actually see what you look like.
Don’t be the guy who every girl is like, “There’s something wrong with that guy.” Yes, we’ve all been burned while dating, and we all have loooooong lists of things we don’t want in a partner.If you met an attractive man at a party, you would be showing him your best side and flirting up a storm. For some women that sounds horrid but in real life we do it all the time. You are literally marketing yourself to the male population online.That photo where your skin looks all glowy and you can’t see your cankles? But the photo from 6 years, 25 pounds and two high-stress jobs ago?Yes, you looked great, but you want to date someone who is attracted to you right now.
There's nothing sexier to a man than your confidence. Come up with ideas or small stories that paint a picture of the two of you that a man can imagine himself in. When you go to a party and you meet someone who keeps saying, "I do this, I like that, I am this," don't you get bored? One big pet peeves for many men is horrible spelling and grammar in profiles. It gives men the wrong impression and encourages those you probably aren't interested in to write to you.